18 Tips To Spice Up The Marriage

It’s never too late to spice up your married life. In hindsight, flirting is probably the way you and your wife started, isn’t it? It is essential to flirt and express oneself at all stages of married life to maintain the youthfulness of the relationship. A healthy and respectful flirtation with your wife can add flavor to your relationship.

In this article, we offer some interesting and original flirting ideas to succeed in seducing your wife.

The following are playful ways to bring the romance back into your marriage.

1. Check her out

Sometimes your eyes speak louder than words. When your wife shows up dressed, examine her so that she notices. When your eyes cross, wink or smile naughty and tell her she’s beautiful. Try this at a party and let her know that she is the only woman who deserves your attention.

2. Call her by flirty names

Don’t call him by his first name in your daily conversations. Use playful adjectives or pretty nicknames to address her. A new nickname every day will keep her attention and make her smile every time!

3. Hold her hand or waist while walking on the street or in the mall

Your wife is indeed your most precious asset. Show the love of your life in public. Walk hand in hand like teenagers. Holding hands will give you both a sense of camaraderie, belonging and warmth. You can gently rub his palms or shake his fingers to make him show that million-dollar smile.

4. Leave notes for her

Leave nice messages or romantic lines on sticky notes. You can even be more creative and design a scavenger hunt for it using these notes. The hunt should end with a significant gift for her. A dress, a pair of earrings, a pretty necklace, or even a beautiful flower at the end of the romantic treasure hunt will make her feel like the queen of your world.

5. Compliment her

Let your wife know why you think she’s special. Compliment it in public as well as in private. Make her feel like she’s the most important person in your life by telling her what you love and appreciate about her. A woman measures her beauty through her husband’s eyes. Say words that will give her confidence and help her fight the insecurities that may have set in during the years of married life. This will rekindle the love between the two of you.

6. Send her flirty texts

SMS are the love letters of modern times. A flirty or sexy text can illuminate your wife’s pretty face in the middle of a busy workday. Find an appropriate time for her to read, appreciate and respond to your messages.

Sending SMS when you’re not together is an effective and cute way to flirt with your wife, but when you’re with her, put the phone away and focus on her.

7. Be interested in her

One of the most important aspects of flirting with your wife is to do more on her and less on you. Listen to her, talk to her, make eye contact, ask questions, smile and let her talk without being distracted or interrupting. Pay attention to what she says and does. This will give her the feeling of being loved and show her that you care about her.

8. Call her randomly

Find some time and escape the monotony of life. Call her work and tell her she was beautiful this morning, or that she makes the best pancakes in the world or just an “I love you” or an “I miss you”. These little things keep the spark alive and the love in bloom.

9. Touch her often

Physical intimacy is the basis of a long and stable relationship. Often touch your wife in a way that she finds comfortable and romantic. Give her a kiss on the cheek or forehead to make her feel loved. Put your arms around her, give her a hug or give her a fun pat. All this will make her blush like a teenager in love.

10. Surprise her with a romantic date

Some date ideas never go out of fashion. Invite her out, as you did the very first time. Take her to a romantic candlelit dinner, play football under the table and keep in constant eye contact to make her feel wanted and loved.

11. Make edible word messages

Get up early on weekends and surprise your wife with breakfast in bed. You can engrave words on pancakes and present them on a plate. This will create a romantic atmosphere and make your wife start the day with a wonderful smile.

12. Show the techie love

Change the automatic setting of your wife’s phone or laptop. Choose common words like “Ok” or “The” and change the settings to replace those words with “I love you” or “You’re sexy.” This will baffle your wife and, at the same time, make her laugh and blush.

13. Plan a date night at home

See her expression when she returns home after a tiring day’s work in a house decorated with fairy lights, with soft music in the background. This romantic gesture will prevail on his feet. This will be one of the most memorable appointments. If you can’t go that far, organize an extemporal dance party in the kitchen. Play your favorite song and dance to the sweet melodies of the music.

14. Take her for long drives

Now, who doesn’t like long journeys! Take her on a long drive and play her favorite songs. Visit a place with a magnificent view, such as a panorama or a hill where you can see up to the horizon. Hold his hand, soak up the view and tell him how much you love him.

15. Go to PDA Social Media

Post photos of yourself both on social media with cheesy captions. She will be moved to see these photos and will fall in love with you once again.

16. Planning a coffee date surprise

Plan to meet for coffee in a café. Let her get there before you do it.  Ask a friend or child you know well for help and send them flowers, chocolates, letters, etc. She’ll be flattered and look forward to you. Ask him to be yours once again and forever at that time. She will then feel very special.

17. Buy some lingerie for her

This will surely surprise your wife. Buy sexy lingerie and place it on the bed as it enters the shower after a long day’s work. She will be surprised by this surprise and will understand your intentions.

18. Have food sent to her workplace

Few things make a woman as happy as her favorite food. Surprise her by sending her a delicious treat to her workplace. Don’t forget to add this nice special printable note to give it a personal touch. This gesture will surely earn you “brownie” points when she comes home from work.

Have fun flirting. Do what comes naturally to you, without forcing yourself to do something that is not you. Efforts must be made to keep love young and prosperous. And as they say, “it takes two to tango.”  Do your part to keep your relationship fun, connected and special. Your wife will surely appreciate your cute antics.

Keep coming up with these dating ideas and surprise your wife every time. Remember that these romantic gestures will not only make your wife happy, but will also bring you joy and satisfaction.